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{written by : Carol Goddard}

Article word count : 503 -- Article Id : 2322
Article active date : 2009-07-06 -- Article views : 13454


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Why is family important to me? My family are my biggest teachers. My family are the ones who get to see me in my 'raw' state. They are the ones who even when I don't like what is happening, or I can feel my self resisting something, my family are..





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Why is family important to me? My family are my biggest teachers. My family are the ones who get to see me in my "raw" state. They are the ones who even when I don"t like what is happening, or I can feel my self resisting something, my family are the ones who are best positioned for me to learn from.

Our families are the ones that can usually see through masks we put up, and they are the ones that can push our buttons more than anyone else. So they offer us an amazing opportunity to grow and learn about ourselves.

What ever bug"s you in the family unit there is a reason for it. So there is some learning experience that you can have from that. If you focus on the problem you can spend years getting upset and caught up in the drama, all it does is lead to further frustration and anger, if you stop and look at why it is the way that it is, you may just have a learning experience.

We can change the questions that we ask ourselves from: Why is this person doing this to me? To: What can I learn from this experience? This is where we can move beyond playing out the childhood belief structures and set ups and interact with each other as adults.

So why are relationships important to me? When I am interacting with another person I get to see another point of view which broadens my perspective, that"s why interacting with people who have a different outlook enriches my life.

I love the adventure and the playfulness of getting to know other people. I get to explore the unknown. The unknown is the opportunity for me to learn something from a different perspective and the opportunity to broaden my horizon.

Following my heart not my head. I am learning to follow my heart rather than my head. What does that mean? Follow the inner knowing that comes from deep within. Sometimes as I tune into the deep knowing, my old belief patters start to scream out in an effort to stop me from following my heart. That"s when I can step back and look and see what is going on and realize that this is another opportunity for me to learn. Then it is about integrating the learning into my life so that the next interaction I have is from an expanded space. For me this is the way, and it saves me recreating the same scenario over and over again, sound familiar? This way I get to work it out, integrate it and then open myself for my next learning. What fun! For me this is the playground where I get to expand and remind myself that if nothing changes then nothing changes....... I get to learn about me from the people that come into my life. And I get to experience love and gratitude for each experience along the way.

© Carol Goddard 2008

Author Bio :
Carol Goddard is an Australian author and presenter, a reminder of who we are. Carol's offering is her Open Heart and the Deepening Remembrance of her own Essence, Carol offers programs both locally and globally. Please visit www.CarolGoddard.net

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