Before we can have a meaningful relationship with another person it is important to come to terms with the relationship we are having with ourselves.|
We draw to us things that resonate at the same frequency and are in harmony with how we are feeling and thinking. If we wish to change what is showing up in our life we have to change ourselves. We have to change how we feel about things.
Negative feelings often spring from our belief system and judgements which we make about life and living and the people who are showing up in our life.
It is sometimes necessary to bring these beliefs and judgements to the surface of our mind and challenge them. By challenge I mean run them through your mind again and see if they are still serving you.
Ask yourself, are these your own beliefs or have you adopted them from your parents or partner? Have you learned them at school or been taught them in a religious setting?
Ask yourself what life would be like if you chose to change your mind about these beliefs. How would your judgements change; how would you view yourself; how would it affect your self worth and love for yourself?
What would happen if you changed your perspective on life and who you are? – If you were to choose to see everything as an aspect of yourself – without any separation, just an interaction of love expressed?
If all relationships were in actual fact you flowing energy from one aspect of yourself to another, how would that feel? – If you stopped judging yourself and just enjoyed giving your love unconditionally to those that enter your life, knowing that we are all One?
How would you feel if you knew that your soul were just a silent witness to the events in your life? – That your soul is non-changing, eternal and absolute; that it is not in this physical world but part of an eternal continuum of energy which always was, and always will be, the same?
How would you feel if you became aware that the love in your heart was connected to an infinite source which could flow for eternity?
– That to whichever person you gave your love, in the end that love could only come back to you: because you and the other person were operating in the same field of energy which was connecting you both to the same source?
Do you feel you could be strong enough to love yourself and all that shows up in your life? Do you feel you could love yourself so much that your heart overflowed with this love?
Could you start to appreciate your merit, your beauty, your intelligence and grace? – And value the help and healing you bring to others in your work and your living?
How do you think you would feel if you gave yourself permission to start to love yourself – as you are, doing exactly what you are doing, just because you choose to, without judgement?
You can make this choice; you can choose to be happy now in this moment.
If you do decide to make this choice, your whole world will change: your whole perspective on life will flow freer. You will be able to drop your "story"; you will be able to see Life as it truly is: the exchange of loving energy flowing from one to another.
Play till your heart"s content in the field of the Self, the oneness of Life and love that is this universe we live in.
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George E. Lockett, HealerGeorge SSHA, IIHHT (C) Copyright 2008, All Rights Reserved.
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